“He’s just not that into you.”

Or maybe he’s just clueless?

I randomly texted Mr. Bball a week after he went MIA to see whether he was ok. He responded almost right away, so I was thinking “alright, I guess it’s great that you’re not dead but where the hell have you been for the past week?”

Of course I didn’t say that. Instead there was some banter back and forth and then he asked me whether I had any plans for the weekend:

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When I told him that I’m free the next day instead of that evening things went quiet and obviously nothing happened the entire weekend.

I don’t get it! I wasn’t immediately available because it was last minute on a Friday night but I made sure to make it known when I WAS available, and he did tell me that he had no plans. The last thing I said to him Friday night was “Hmmm ok I’m out, let me know sometime if you’d like to get together. Have a good night!” to which there was no response until this morning when he randomly said “good morning.”


So what gives with this dude? I’ve made it clear that I’m interested, I’ve done more than my fair share of trying to get us together, I’ve given him ample opportunity to ask me out, and I have gotten nothing but randomness.

I ain’t got time to be chasing after no man – get a clue Mr. Bball!