Sorry, but I’m not sorry

Have you ever had to apologize for something that you didn’t think you should have to apologize for?

I had to do this today, and all I wanted to do was send the below image to the crazy woman instead – because I’m not sorry!


Sometimes I wish I could speak my mind like a child but without the adult consequences.


Soulmates? I don’t think so.

Looks like Mr. Rasta is coming off my list.

He kept asking me when we were going to get together, when was he going to see me again? I finally asked him what he was looking for between us.

His answer? Soulmates.

And I ran.

Sorry, I just can’t do that right now. I’ve also started paring down the men in my life. It was becoming too exhausting trying to manage them all, and to be honest I happen to really like Mr. Smiley. Since he’s gone in a couple of months I figured I might as well spend as much time as possible with him because time is so limited.

Instead of men I am focusing more time on myself. I have taken up dancing again because I realized that I miss it. I spend about an hour each evening just drilling and dancing and stretching and it’s so relaxing when I’m done. I am also starting yoga as an addendum to the dance, though we’ll see how long that lasts – I just can’t really get into the meditative stuff, I need to be moving!

In case anyone is interested, here is what I’m currently using for the dance stuff:

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Also, check this out for inspiration (I love this woman):


Head, meet Desk.

I had another conversation with Mr. Bball today.

It went something like this:


He texted me again out of the blue. After a bit of banter I told him flat out that he is the first man I’ve met that I can’t read at all.


Ok so we got the “does he like me / does he not like me” stuff out of the way. I was thinking this was progress and decided to just flat out ask him why he seems to be so reluctant to get together.


I then made a really stupid suggestion that we could play basketball, which is ridiculous because I’m not very good at sports in general and you know, he’s kind of a pro. It has epic fail written all over it.

Regardless, his response was actually flirty!


Then I told him to name the time and place this weekend – and he went silent. AGAIN.


Do I really have to literally throw myself at this man for him to make a move?


“He’s just not that into you.”

Or maybe he’s just clueless?

I randomly texted Mr. Bball a week after he went MIA to see whether he was ok. He responded almost right away, so I was thinking “alright, I guess it’s great that you’re not dead but where the hell have you been for the past week?”

Of course I didn’t say that. Instead there was some banter back and forth and then he asked me whether I had any plans for the weekend:

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When I told him that I’m free the next day instead of that evening things went quiet and obviously nothing happened the entire weekend.

I don’t get it! I wasn’t immediately available because it was last minute on a Friday night but I made sure to make it known when I WAS available, and he did tell me that he had no plans. The last thing I said to him Friday night was “Hmmm ok I’m out, let me know sometime if you’d like to get together. Have a good night!” to which there was no response until this morning when he randomly said “good morning.”


So what gives with this dude? I’ve made it clear that I’m interested, I’ve done more than my fair share of trying to get us together, I’ve given him ample opportunity to ask me out, and I have gotten nothing but randomness.

I ain’t got time to be chasing after no man – get a clue Mr. Bball!