Single GTA Women: Watch For This Man

I saw this story on the news last night and am passing it on.

This is 29-year-old Robert Charles Henry, who also goes by the name “Anthony Henry”

He is 6’ 2”, weighing about 190 pounds, with an athletic build, short black hair and a thin chinstrap beard and goatee.

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He is accused of forcing a woman he met on PlentyofFish into his car, threatening to kill her, and hitting her with his car.

Police believe there may be more victims.

He drives a 2001 Silver Lexus with license plate BSDY 927.

If you have seen this man, or have been unfortunate enough to meet him, please contact Toronto police at 416-808-5204, or anonymously through Crime Stoppers at 416-222-TIPS (8477), online at 222tips.com, or by texting TOR and your message to CRIMES (274637).


I Can See Why You’re Single

Online dating offers so much amusement sometimes….

1. At least he’s persistent


I wonder if the repeated messages ever work for him? I guess maybe eventually he wears you down so much that you just say yes?

2. Uhm, what?

When did proper grammar and punctuation become uncool?

3. Only a somewhat clean woman required

I laughed out loud at this one. You only need to be fairly clean to date this guy – also I hope he means “flexible” and not “fixable” – and I wonder what he hopes to introduce on the first date? The suspense would kill me.

4. I just had to ask

I think he confused this site with a BDSM hookup site. Or he just needs a puppy.

5. This text from my incredibly boring date on Sunday

I threw up in my mouth a bit when he said “brown sugar.”


Soulmates? I don’t think so.

Looks like Mr. Rasta is coming off my list.

He kept asking me when we were going to get together, when was he going to see me again? I finally asked him what he was looking for between us.

His answer? Soulmates.

And I ran.

Sorry, I just can’t do that right now. I’ve also started paring down the men in my life. It was becoming too exhausting trying to manage them all, and to be honest I happen to really like Mr. Smiley. Since he’s gone in a couple of months I figured I might as well spend as much time as possible with him because time is so limited.

Instead of men I am focusing more time on myself. I have taken up dancing again because I realized that I miss it. I spend about an hour each evening just drilling and dancing and stretching and it’s so relaxing when I’m done. I am also starting yoga as an addendum to the dance, though we’ll see how long that lasts – I just can’t really get into the meditative stuff, I need to be moving!

In case anyone is interested, here is what I’m currently using for the dance stuff:

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Also, check this out for inspiration (I love this woman):


Ok no, you can’t breed me…

I had an impromptu sleepover with Mr. Jamaica last weekend and I realized that it’s probably time to slow things down to a full stop.

Clue #1 was when he showed up 3 hours late for dinner, which wouldn’t have been a big deal except for Clue #2 and #3…

Clue #2 was when he asked me whether I would consider taking my IUD out. Uh, no, I’m not ready to have a kid, especially not with someone I literally just met. Who does that?

Clue #3 was when he whispered in my ear during sex that he wants to “breed” me. The last time I checked I was a woman, not a dog, and I’m not interested in just popping somebody’s kid out, thankyouverymuch. I know this sounds crazy, but I’d actually like to have a child with someone that I love and care about, that I’m in a stable relationship with, and that doesn’t consider me just a breeding machine.

I’m asking too much, right?